The Opposite of Settling

“Case Kenny is one of my favorite writers. This book is a breath of fresh air and a source of inspiration for anyone who is navigating love.

will not only help you connect better, but it will leave you feeling empowered. This is a must-read.”

—

, #1

best-selling author of

Are you looking for a love that offers you clarity, not confusion? Does it feel like love has gotten too complicated? Does the sea of dating rules and expectations make you feel overwhelmed?

Case Kenny, host of the

podcast and author of

, brings you

—a blend of practical mindfulness, evidence-based research, and undiluted optimism—to help you find a love that expands your world. Case guides you toward finding and building a relationship that empowers you to be independent, vibrant,

in love. The book offers you the tools to:

• Navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and an unbothered mindset
• Find a connection that feels like home yet pushes you toward a fuller and more vibrant life
• Recognize and attract relationships that elevate your life instead of weighing or “settling” you down
• Let go of fear-based dating habits and find a love that enhances your sense of independence

isn’t just about finding someone; it's about finding more of yourself in the process. Case’s concept of “settling up” (the opposite of “settling down”) offers an energizing affirmation of love, leaving you feeling lighter, unburdened of rules and expectations, and on the path to finding a relationship where you both look at each other and think, "Yup, that's my kind of weird.”