允許把自己放在第一位

I didn't expect the section on rewriting your old relationship story to hit so hard, but I reread it twice. It's the first book that actually made me feel okay about wanting more for myself instead of settling.

The chapter on flipping the old relationship model actually made me put the book down and rethink how I show up in dating. It's the kind of read that feels like a therapist asking the questions you've been avoiding, in a good way.

I didn't expect a relationship book to start with me instead of the other person, but that flip is exactly what made it click. The chapter on rewriting the old model had me rethinking how I show up, not just who I'm looking for.