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平裝版現已上市,來自 New Mindset, Who Dis?,《The Opposite of Settling》 幫助你找到能提升生活各個層面的伴侶關係。

「Case Kenny 是我最喜歡的作者之一。這本書宛如一股清流,為正在探索愛情的人帶來啟發。

《The Opposite of Settling》

不僅能幫助你建立更好的連結,還會讓你感到充滿力量。這是一本必讀之作。」


—

Yung Pueblo

, #1

《紐約時報》

暢銷書作者,著有

《Lighter》

你是否在尋找一份能帶來清晰而非困惑的愛情?是否覺得愛情變得過於複雜?約會規則與期望的汪洋是否讓你感到不知所措?



Case Kenny,

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Podcast 主持人及

《That’s Bold of You》

的作者,為你帶來

——融合了實用的正念、實證研究與純粹的樂觀——幫助你找到一份能拓展你世界的愛情。Case 引導你尋找並建立一段能讓你獨立、充滿活力、

且

在愛情中的關係。本書為你提供以下工具:



  • 以自信和從容的心態,應對現代約會的複雜性
  • 找到一份既像家般舒適,又能推動你邁向更充實、更活力生活的連結
  • 辨識並吸引那些能提升你生活,而非拖累或「委屈」你的關係
  • 放下基於恐懼的約會習慣,找到一份能增強你獨立感的愛情

不僅關乎找到某人,更關乎在此過程中找到更多的自己。Case 的「向上提升」(相對於「安定下來」)概念,為愛情注入振奮人心的肯定,讓你感到更輕盈、擺脫規則與期望的束縛,並踏上尋找一段關係的旅程,在這段關係中,你們彼此看著對方,心想:「沒錯,這就是我的怪咖。」

Customer Reviews (4.8 / 5 · 5 reviews)

David ★★★★★

I picked this up expecting the usual dating advice, but the way it frames partnership as something that should upgrade your life instead of just filling a gap really stuck with me. The paperback feels good to flip through, and I've already gone back to reread a few sections. It gave me a much cleare

Eva ★★★★★

The chapter on knowing your non-negotiables hit me harder than I expected. I've already gone back and reread it twice with a highlighter.

Julian ★★★★★

I've read a lot of dating books that just tell you to love yourself more, but this one actually reframes what you should be looking for in a partner. The paperback format made it easy to dog-ear the chapters I keep going back to.